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    Quote Originally Posted by Fey View Post
    Actually I was making a joke about how trivial it is to try and make you see an alternate perspective. I could pretty much attach a giant sign to a wall that says "YOU'RE WRONG!" then have a discussion with it and it would pretty accurately describe most of what I've seen you post on this forum.

    I just don't get it. How many times do I have to say that I love this game before you stop pushing to prove yourself as "right"? Because I really, seriously, genuinely do lol. I just choose not to turn a blind eye to faults. And I admittedly tend to be far more critical than most. Mainly because I've been gaming since my brain could retain memories.

    If something can be improved, I will not hesitate to say so. They will be opinions. Most people wont listen/will misinterpret said opinions. Some people will take up arms to save their game from my defiling words like the brave, valiant knights that they believe themselves to be, after all that's what fanboys are for. And very few will agree with said opinions and conduct themselves in a constructive discussion. At the end of the day, unless thousands of people see eye to eye with any opinion, the Dev's wont care about them. But no one will know it if I don't say it.

    I'm already fully aware of that my opinions are only opinions before you point out the obvious with "that's just an opinion" "stating opinions doesn't make you right" "blah blah blah". But then again, this is the internet. I suppose my expectations were already low. Hah.
    But you're dismissing me as a fan boi because I don't see the same faults you did. To that end, I posted a list of stuff that I see wrong, and it's none of these things. I have my own faults. I don't agree with these faults, with the exception of Anet needs to explain things better. That I do agree with and have said so before.

    I don't mind faults being pointed out. But I first have to agree that they're faults, first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vayne View Post
    But you're dismissing me as a fan boi because I don't see the same faults you did.I don't mind.
    I'm not dismissing you as a fanboy. I'm making jokes about you being a fanboy. Which you are. And that's fine. I don't care if you are or not. I still read everything you write. If I dismiss anything, it's your lack of experience within this genre which is pretty apparent. But I've never thought that makes me better or smarter, only that my perspective is different and that you ignore it.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vayne View Post
    I don't mind faults being pointed out. But I first have to agree that they're faults, first.
    You seem to think I'm trying to prove you right or wrong. Or trying to convince you to change your mind, personally I really don't care. I already pretty much agree to disagree with everything we've discussed previously. The only reason I ever continue any discussion is because I feel like you're literally incapable of seeing things from another perspective, so in turn I offer my own. Which you can take or leave. In the end it makes no difference to me.

    I always take your perspective and add it to my own to consider in the future, which will benefit me. As the majority of the current generation of MMO players is "new blood" which started playing MMO's after WoW's release (whether they played it or not is irrelevant, it still changed everything).

    After all, I acknowledge that I'm a dying breed of gamer. Especially now that things have been changing so quickly. And that the current consumer base has a different set of standards and expectations compared to my own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fey View Post
    I'm not dismissing you as a fanboy. I'm making jokes about you being a fanboy. Which you are. And that's fine. I don't care if you are or not. I still read everything you write. If I dismiss anything, it's your lack of experience within this genre which is pretty apparent. But I've never thought that makes me better or smarter, only that my perspective is different and that you ignore it.



    You seem to think I'm trying to prove you right or wrong. Or trying to convince you to change your mind, personally I really don't care. I already pretty much agree to disagree with everything we've discussed previously. The only reason I ever continue any discussion is because I feel like you're literally incapable of seeing things from another perspective, so in turn I offer my own. Which you can take or leave. In the end it makes no difference to me.

    I always take your perspective and add it to my own to consider in the future, which will benefit me. As the majority of the current generation of MMO players is "new blood" which started playing MMO's after WoW's release (whether they played it or not is irrelevant, it still changed everything).

    After all, I acknowledge that I'm a dying breed of gamer. Especially now that things have been changing so quickly. And that the current consumer base has a different set of standards and expectations compared to my own.
    It's funny because people have said about you the same thing to me. That you're incapable of seeing anything but your own point of view. I have, publically, changed my view on certain things in this forum after getting more information. Sometimes I don't change my point of view simply because after considering what someone says, I STILL don't agree. That's not being closed-minded. Being closed-minded is not considering it.

    So exactly what evidence do you have that I haven't considered these points of view? Because I'd say you're being awfully hypocritical here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vayne View Post
    It's funny because people have said about you the same thing to me. That you're incapable of seeing anything but your own point of view.
    That's fine. They're welcome to think what they want. I really don't care.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fey View Post
    That's fine. They're welcome to think what they want. I really don't care.
    You still didn't answer my question. What evidence do you have that I'm reading and not considering what is being said. You may think I don't consider it, because I continue to disagree. That's not the case. I consider all comments. I changed my tune in the elementalist thread, or even that you can survive with no gear progression at all, and still be a triple A MMO. Because I've changed how I think, some have called me out saying I don't stick to my guns. So I can't win.

    If I stand behind what I say, then I'm closed minded, but if I change what I say, I'm a waffler with no allegiance. It's a lose, lose proposition. I just wish those that said I can't make up my mind and contradict myself, and those who say I'm closed-minded can get together on some consensus of who I really am, because even I'm confused now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vayne View Post
    You still didn't answer my question. What evidence do you have that I'm reading and not considering what is being said. You may think I don't consider it, because I continue to disagree. That's not the case. I consider all comments. I changed my tune in the elementalist thread, or even that you can survive with no gear progression at all, and still be a triple A MMO. Because I've changed how I think, some have called me out saying I don't stick to my guns. So I can't win.
    Honestly? I'm not going to dignify that with an answer. It's childish and trivial and will probably do nothing but start drama. Especially since you've already stated that the community has a negative view of me.

    If you really do consider and analyze other peoples perspectives, you'd be able to think back to previous threads and say "I can see why they think that of me". I mean, I know I can with things I've said. I can see exactly why you and anyone else thinks I'm just being hypocritical. And I don't really blame them, even if it's not true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fey View Post
    Honestly? I'm not going to dignify that with an answer. It's childish and trivial and will probably do nothing but start drama. Especially since you've already stated that the community has a negative view of me.

    If you really do consider and analyze other peoples perspectives, you'd be able to think back to previous threads and say "I can see why they think that of me". I mean, I know I can with things I've said. I can see exactly why you and anyone else thinks I'm just being hypocritical. And I don't really blame them, even if it's not true.
    I just think you're a guy with strong opinions and what the "community" thinks of you isn't what I was talking about. Just a couple of people within the community and not a strong enough group to say what the community thinks. Just as the community thinks I'm just a fan boi and therefore I'm not necessarily worth listening too.

    But that's the problem. It's hard to see from these forums exactly what anyone thinks. These are just snippets of ideas with no real order. Answering posts isn't the same thing as writing a book, or even an article. It's more of a conversation, that changes all the time.

    What it looks like isn't really all that important, except that your ideas end up getting dismissed. I don't like being dismissed as a fan boi or closed minded and I'll defend when anyone intimates that. You say I'm close-minded. It's not true. Even if you think it is, it's not.

    And yes, I can see why you'd think it, but really, I'm just a person with a strong opinion. I still listen to what people say, roll it around in my mind, consider it and then write what I think. If that makes me close-minded, so be it.

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    Guys, please. You're not even arguing about the article anymore, you're just arguing because there's a lack of understanding here, and I don't think that needs to be a public discussion. If you want to continue arguing about who does or doesn't understand each other, then I kindly suggest you take it to PM. I would appreciate it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Izzy View Post
    Guys, please. You're not even arguing about the article anymore, you're just arguing because there's a lack of understanding here, and I don't think that needs to be a public discussion. If you want to continue arguing about who does or doesn't understand each other, then I kindly suggest you take it to PM. I would appreciate it.
    Some of us are at work, need to be entertained and respectfully disagree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bokiz333 View Post
    Some of us are at work, need to be entertained and respectfully disagree.
    Actually, Izzy is quite right. Nothing that's been said in a number of posts furthers the conversation at all. For my part, I apologize. And on that note, I'm retiring for the night. Have fun all.

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